The mainstream concept of being “bisexual” is usually to be intimately interested in men and women.

That I identify as queer if you don’t really know me you may not know.

Folks are frequently astonished whenever we inform them we date females, too, because I can “pass” as being right. We don’t have actually the stereotypical markers of queerness that some individuals look out for in queer women: tattoos, quick locks, rainbows and Xena (hey Haydee!), flannel shirt, etc. (believe me, I attempted the faux hawk thing and it also didn’t work with me personally!).

We identify as “femme” and We possess and like it. My femme ness does not make me any less queer, radical, or feminist, because i will be working out agency to determine exactly exactly just what queerness and womanhood look and feel like for me personally. In addition, stereotypes that Chaturbate cams expect lesbian ladies become butch, and homosexual males to be feminine further perpetuate heteronormativity and erase the mandatory difference between sex identification and intimate orientation. An interest for an extended post.

Me access to certain privileges (cis and hetero ) as you can imagine, my ability to “pass” as straight and being seen as traditionally feminine give. Continue reading The mainstream concept of being “bisexual” is usually to be intimately interested in men and women.